Goodbye Grumblings

Find the good

How recategorizing helped me battle a grumble

I firmly believe that we can all change if we really want to. It took some big, fluffy beach towels to remind me that sometimes a tiny shift, a simple change to my mental filing system, is all it takes to stop a grumble. I like the idea that we can all change. But the actual […]


A magical way to improve conversations

It’s not new, and it isn’t really magical — but it sure feels like the effects are magical. It’s common knowledge, really. So why devote a whole post to it? Because it’s worth repeating until it becomes second nature. What is this (almost) magical thing? It’s simple: Listen. Just listen. Listen properly. I don’t mean listen the way I listen […]